Tennessee Cemeteries
Childhood Memories
These page are the writings of Maggie Jewell Alsup Elrod (1914-2003).  They were given to me by a relative of Mattie Jewell's and originally were over 100 hand written pages.  The people in the picture are Thomas Bond Alsup, his wife Mary Ella Weatherly and Maggie Jewell. Maggie's great, great grandfather was the first Asaph "Ace" Alsup. 

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The Day Our House Burned

"While the earth remaineth, seed time and harvest and cold and heat, and summer and winter and day and night shall not cease." Genesis 8:22 This passage of scripture came to my mind as I was sitting here reminiscing over the past. Fifty years ago today, 1930. I was then fifteen, the oldest in a family of five children.

The day started as usual. Mama got up early and cooked breakfast for Daddy and four other men he worked with. Breakfast consist of fresh pork backbone on spare ribs, hot biscuits, and strong coffee. As soon as it was day light they took off to the woods, to cut logs to carry to the mill. We children got up and ate our breakfast. Mama and Dora went to the barn to milk. Mary washed the dishes while I made the beds, and swept the floors. We were eager to get started to school. We had only been here eight days and had made new friends in this little country school which had only seven pupils until we increased the student population to twelve. The school was almost sure to be closed, so we received a big welcome from Miss Hilda McPeak and the pupils.

As I said before, everything was going as usual. We were all happy and looking forward to an enjoyable day. As I lived these fifty years since that day, I have experienced many changes in my life, some of them came gradually, as the process of aging slowly wins the race, and its victim once in the bloom of life, now is a faded flower. The sudden change may come when we unexpectedly meet some one that will change the whole course of our life. This case was like a storm on a sunny day. The change was brought about by perhaps a tiny match or a cigarette butt carelessly thrown down by one of the men before they left for work.

James came running into the room where I was combing my hair and said "the house is on fire." I said "go get mama." I quickly looked out the door across the hall. The flames were already coming out the windows. I did not even take time to get me a sweater. Mama sent James to our nearest neighbor for help. She came and ran into the house and dragged a feather bed out. She was almost overcome by smoke that was so heavy she could hardly find the door. Mama and we children stood helplessly by and watched every thing we had fall to ashes. The flames of the old weather boarded log house shot so far up, it looked as if them and the sky met. The snow was deep and we had no coats, so mama carried the feather bed to the barn and told us to get on it, and put the quilt she had saved, around us. Since we had only lived in this home in the hills of Williamson County sixteen days of so we had not met our neighbors about a quarter of a mile away. In maybe fifteen or twenty minutes James returned with Mr. Pete Christopher, who welcomed us to his home, as did his pretty wife, Thelma. She loaned me a coat so I could go to school. Dora wore the sweater she had worn to the barn. I don't recall where Mary got a coat, but some how she went to school.

We had always been rather timid, but today we more or less enjoyed the unusual attention from everyone. Our new friends were making plans for us to go home with them at closing time. On our way from school, we stopped by the bed of ashes that had been our home. There was still a few smoldering embers, and a little smoke here and there. The antique wooden beds and little table had vanished along with the beautiful quilts mama had worked so hard to make.

The remainder of the sewing machine passed down from my grandmother stood in grotesque figure. The fruit we had worked so hard to pick and can was lying in a busted heap. I thought of the hot sultry July days we had spent in the black berry patch, all for nothing. Even the old iron range was busted. But worst of all our pictures, and little keep sakes were gone.

The night before we had all slept in the same big room. Daddy never liked for us to be separated at night, but tonight we would be sleeping under four different roofs. Daddy said "the main thing we all are alive and well."

The neighbors were all so nice and friendly and gave us such a warm welcome, we found our temporary homes to be most enjoyable.

This even happened fifty years ago. All the older group has passed on, and some of the younger ones, but I still think of them all with fond memories.

Maggie Jewell Alsup Elrod


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SPRING

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Spring was exciting time of the year for every one, especially we children.  There was always anticipation for tomorrow.  Mama would set three or four hens, and in three weeks the little chicks would break through the shell, and there would be a yard full of the prettiest little downy chicks.  There would be a new colt, or new calf and tiny little pigs.  One morning Daddy came from the barn with the news we had fourteen little pigs. 

The whole bunch of us took off to the barn to see them.  Daddy said the old sow could not nurse but twelve pigs, so Mama brought two of them to the house and bottle fed them until they were big enough to eat.  They rebelled being put out in the barn lot, and every time one of us opened the yard gate they sneaked in.  Mama finally decided she would not turn the house into a pig pen, so she had to sell them, even though it brought a few tears, as she bid little Red and little Spot goodbye. 

One time when I was a small child, Daddy came in and said we had some little pigs.  Of course, I wanted to go see them even though there was a big snow, so Daddy wrapped his big overcoat around me and him, and carried me to see them. 

Spring of the year was not only and exciting time, it was a busy time.  Daddy started us to planting corn by the time we were knee high.  Sometimes we planted it too thick, so when it came up we would have to go down each row and thin it out.  Then we had to set out rows and rows of sweet potatoes and tomatoes.  It was all back breaking work, but Mama reminded us of how we would enjoy the fruits of our labor later on.  Store bought fruits and vegetables are just not as good as they are fresh off the vine.  Hard work out in the open air gave us a good appetite.

Another thing I enjoyed was butterflies.  The mud holes in the gravel road were literally covered with beautiful butterflies of all colors.  I also liked to watch the bees sip nectar from flowers.  They never seemed to rest, but were "Busy As a Bee" all day long.

Then I watched with delight the little wrens build their next under the eve of our front porch.  I counted the days till the little eggs hatched and I could watch the mother bring worms to feed the baby birds, that seemed to always be hungry.

As I said, spring was a busy time.  Amid the sweet smelling lilacs and honeysuckle and pretty red roses in the yard were lots of weeds that we had to pull so the grass could grow.  I surely did wish for a lawn mower that I could just push, and it would cut the weeds.  Mama was a good physiologist even though she had never had any kind of philology.  She would tell us to clean the yard up good, so people passing the road would think we had a pretty yard, and we would work real hard.  Each of us girls would dig a flower bed and plant zinnias or marigold seed, or four o'clocks.  We acquired a love of flowers from both our grandmothers, I guess.  They both took a lot of pride in their flowers.  In the spring time Mama spent her spare time in the garden.  She would hoe the tomatoes one day and the cabbage the next day.  We kids got the job of getting bugs off the cabbage and squash also the green beans.  So you see every one had a job.

House cleaning was a big job in those days.  In the house were two big beds and a cot.  Each with a big feather bed, and straw mattresses, and about three big quilts, and wool blankets, etc.  Every piece of the bed including the pillows were carried out in the yard to dust and air out.  Mama then scrubbed the big floor with hot soapy water, then rinsed it with clear water.  After the floor was dry late in evening, we brought everything back into the house.  The quilts to be stored in a big quilt box upstairs.  The blankets were later washed and stored.  Mama put pair of white curtains, made from flower sacks, over the one little window.  Windows made houses weak so they said.  At least it eliminated the job of washing windows.  Mama would scrub the kitchen floor with the suds left on wash day.  She would get a new oil cloth for the eating table, then put the old one on the side table.  We had a red checked table cloth for special company, like the preacher, on Uncle Orson who came only once a year.  He was special because he always brought us kids a big box of candy.

Another job that came in between spring and fall was blackberry picking and canning.  The berries were ripe the last of June and the first week of July, the hottest time of the year.  We would soak a string in coal oil and tie one around each ankle and each wrist to discourage chiggers.  I guess chiggers are the smallest insect there is, but they sure can bit.  They seem to thrive in berry patches.

One that that stands out in my memory ... Mama down in the lot near the house picking black berries and leaving me to take care of Gerald when he was a baby. I was eight years old then.  When he would get tired and sleepy, I would make him a sugar tit.  I would use a clean handkerchief, or maybe a piece of old sheet.  I made a mixture of crumbled biscuit, sugar, and butter and tied it up in the handkerchief then dipped it in warm water.  It was a good substitute, he thought so.  This knowledge has helped me in later life when I was baby sitting and the baby bottle got empty.